The source of a rebellious of a child - January 21, 2009

A month ago, my cousins from Australia came back for vacation, it's their school break, which break for 3 and a half months...gosh, how I wish that I could study in Australia so can have such a long break.

Absolutely they will say at my house for few days and then stay at their dad's house for few days, switching here and there. During the days those kids stay at my home, I totally saw how am I being treated or so call "educated" by my grandma and relatives.

Poor both of my cousins are totally experiencing the same every single "educating system". It's like this:

1.)Forced to do something which they don't really want to.
2.)Beaten up like hell just to teach them to do this and that (of course they are naughty sometimes, but kids are like that, agree?)
3.)Yell at them while they look up sad and unhappy, then when they try to explain or answer back, due to the Chinese traditional culture, it is a rude reaction, then the situation worsen.

This is just part of the "educating system" they experienced, it is totally a big difference if compare to my childhood, interested knowing? Well, like it or not, I would like to share out so that readers could know how I have my childhood and hope you guys do not treat your children like this, no matter in spiritual or biological.

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4.)Slap on the face until my face got swollen and my ears gone deaf for couple of hours.
5.)Kneel before the idol with the matches branches placed on my knee for 2-3 hours. (Imagine that pain, try it if you wanna know how it feels.)
6.)In the situation of number 5, at the same time, my feet is whack heavily with a cane for times which I couldn't even remember, just remember that both of my feet are swollen with the traces of the cane.
7.)Scrub my lips with chili.
8.)Threaten by using a knife to cut of my fingers, which the knife had already placed on my fingers.
9.)Beaten up like hell with a mosquito bat until the iron breaks out. (Praise God that the battery inside the mosquito bat was taken out by dunno who, if not, I will suffer another electricity pain.)
10.)Always being ordered to do this or that, while don't know or do it wrongly, will beaten up again.

I do not deny that I am being rude or naughty on that days, is it my fault actually? Due to my cousins, I don't see there is any fault on them, so do I. But this is not the way to teach our children.

I think that's all to stat, really suffering to recall this, but I want the whole world to know that, never treat your spiritual or biological children like this, if not, things will always turn upside down when it goes to a maximum. That is why now I afraid nothing in physical and so angry while I see a parent teaching their children in an aggressive way.

Praise God that God had saved me from suffering and set me free, so that I could fly on the sky with Christ the Lord. Amen.