John 4:18-19
18. There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.
19. We love because he first loved us.
20. If anyone says, "I love God," yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen.
21. And he has given us this command: Whoever loves God must also love his brother.
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For God's word is the source of every power are from. But many people don't know this is actually just 1 purpose from God, He LOVES us.
People in this world, in the society thinks that love is something that we can trade with each other, just for own purpose and needs. That isn't called love, that is called love that has a broken cell. Why say so? In the word of God says,
"There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love."
See? The word of God stated very clearly, there is no fear in love, and love drives out fear. I believe nowadays kids always face a very incorrect education system in their house. Their parents will only compliment or reward them once they achieve something which please their parents. If they could not achieve, they will only receive negative comments or maybe punishment from their parents, but not receive any encouragement from them. Why does this kind of education system exist in family? Isn't family is as known as Father And Mother I LOVE You?
"We love because He first loved us."
The word of God once again tells us, the only way we can love people, loving each other, is because God first loved us! Is the same if change the situation back inside a family. How can we say I Love You to our parents if our parents shows us no love? Or maybe love in conditions, it's vice-versa, we will love our parents in conditions. This is wrong! Love shouldn't be like that! Because there should be no fear in love, there should be no condition in love! If people trying to say that,:"Hey, we are no God, we aren't Jesus Christ, how can we do what Jesus do?" Then I will tell you, you were wrong, doesn't we know that we will achieve bigger things than what Jesus did in this mortal world? AMEN?
This is why people in this society are lack of love, care, hope and encouragement. Because their parents did not show them what is the true meaning of love & caring. They show no hope because their parents did not set a good example for them. Not only that, they always discourage them.
But there is always hope for us, because God is among us! Amen! God is doing great things and a very very big plan of revolution in this vary generation. This generation we're living is vary because we live in God's plan. And this project name is called Love. God wants to put love in our heart.
He is doing this great thing in this generation. Thus, how can we work with God? How can we walk with God in this plan? this is very simple.
"If anyone says, "I love God," yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen.
And he has given us this command: Whoever loves God must also love his brother."
See? God has already shown His big plan and project that He wants to do since the day of Peter! I know this is written by John, but this plan had been planned during Simon Peter's day or even much more earlier than it. Remember what Simon Peter ask Jesus? He ask that if one of his brother offended him, how many times he should forgive him? And what Jesus replied? 70 of 7 times! Jesus is not only trying to tell us to forgive a person for 490 times, but the true meaning of Jesus is, He wants us to forgive that person completely no matter how many times the person had offended us. This is LOVE.
Therefore only we can love our brother & sister in church. If we cannot even love them, do not dare yourself to say that we love God. If we cannot love someone who exist before us, how can we love God that exist but we cannot seen? This is the truth in the Kingdom of God.
Amen,
Paul Yap.
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The Great Commission - April 15, 2009
Matthew 28:18-20
18 Then Jesus came to them and said, "All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me.
19 Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,
20 and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age."
OK, I think each and everyone of us has already well-known on this topic and what is it about, yeah, the great commission from Jesus Christ.
But I would like to share something which I have learn about this topic.
The word "commission", is originally a combination word from command + mission. Which means Jesus command us into a mission. And what we gonna do is just obey His command, then finish the mission.
In this case we have to find out some main words contain in the verses.
Verse 18 - Authority
Verse 19 - Make Disciples
Verse 19 - Baptize
Verse 20 - Teach them to obey everything
Verse 20 - To the very end of the age
In this case we could see that what Jesus had did is:
First, He had authorized us. In verse 18 He said that all authority in heaven and on earth has been given to Him. It is all unto His name and when we carry His name and walk out on the street, we spread the gospel and do whatever things that related to glorify His name, at the same time we're carrying the authority with us.
Secondly, make disciples of ALL NATIONS! It's ALL NATIONS. Not only in Malaysia, not only in Taiwan, not only in America, but it's ALL! What does it mean? One thing we have to know is what comes before disciples? Isn't it is from a normal believer? A believer does not really equal to the disciples of Jesus Christ. A believer means, those Christians just only attend Sunday service on weekend and act like a normal person without God and holiness on weekdays. This word "making disciples of all nations", contained 2 things God told us to do,
1. Evangelism
2. Teaching
Thirdly, baptize. Jesus told us to baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. This is actually quite simple, while our cell member or any simply Christians who are yet to baptize, what we need to do is letting them know the importance and the meaning of being baptized. Baptize is actually to receive a seal in the spiritual realm from the Holy Spirit. And then until the day comes, we will be recognized that we have the seal of the Spirit on us!
Forth, teach them to obey everything that Jesus Christ had commanded us. From here I could see that God not only wants us to teach our disciple about what God had teach us, and also He wants us to help our disciple on letting them know how to build a RELATIONSHIP with Him. The source of why the disciples of Jesus Christ on that day will be able to receive His words and able stay close with Him, it is just because they had a RELATIONSHIP with God.
Lastly, to the very end of the age. This is a promise and covenant made by God Himself. He said that He will be with us, until the end of the age. This is simple and easy to understand. End of the age, in Chinese is 直到世界的末了. Which is means until our breath runs dry!
I hope that each and everyone of us are willing to response to God whenever we heard what He had commanded us. Therefore, God's will will be done on earth as it is in heaven.
Amen!
Paul
18 Then Jesus came to them and said, "All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me.
19 Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,
20 and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age."
OK, I think each and everyone of us has already well-known on this topic and what is it about, yeah, the great commission from Jesus Christ.
But I would like to share something which I have learn about this topic.
The word "commission", is originally a combination word from command + mission. Which means Jesus command us into a mission. And what we gonna do is just obey His command, then finish the mission.
In this case we have to find out some main words contain in the verses.
Verse 18 - Authority
Verse 19 - Make Disciples
Verse 19 - Baptize
Verse 20 - Teach them to obey everything
Verse 20 - To the very end of the age
In this case we could see that what Jesus had did is:
First, He had authorized us. In verse 18 He said that all authority in heaven and on earth has been given to Him. It is all unto His name and when we carry His name and walk out on the street, we spread the gospel and do whatever things that related to glorify His name, at the same time we're carrying the authority with us.
Secondly, make disciples of ALL NATIONS! It's ALL NATIONS. Not only in Malaysia, not only in Taiwan, not only in America, but it's ALL! What does it mean? One thing we have to know is what comes before disciples? Isn't it is from a normal believer? A believer does not really equal to the disciples of Jesus Christ. A believer means, those Christians just only attend Sunday service on weekend and act like a normal person without God and holiness on weekdays. This word "making disciples of all nations", contained 2 things God told us to do,
1. Evangelism
2. Teaching
Thirdly, baptize. Jesus told us to baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. This is actually quite simple, while our cell member or any simply Christians who are yet to baptize, what we need to do is letting them know the importance and the meaning of being baptized. Baptize is actually to receive a seal in the spiritual realm from the Holy Spirit. And then until the day comes, we will be recognized that we have the seal of the Spirit on us!
Forth, teach them to obey everything that Jesus Christ had commanded us. From here I could see that God not only wants us to teach our disciple about what God had teach us, and also He wants us to help our disciple on letting them know how to build a RELATIONSHIP with Him. The source of why the disciples of Jesus Christ on that day will be able to receive His words and able stay close with Him, it is just because they had a RELATIONSHIP with God.
Lastly, to the very end of the age. This is a promise and covenant made by God Himself. He said that He will be with us, until the end of the age. This is simple and easy to understand. End of the age, in Chinese is 直到世界的末了. Which is means until our breath runs dry!
I hope that each and everyone of us are willing to response to God whenever we heard what He had commanded us. Therefore, God's will will be done on earth as it is in heaven.
Amen!
Paul
Knowing - Watch this movie with your spiritual eyes opened!
I had watch this movie in the afternoon with best buddy of mine, KC. I don't know what is his feeling towards this movie, he just told me that there is too much of mystery and a lot of question mark (?) on this movie. But for me, I saw something really incredible and a message from God.
In this movie, when a teacher (Nicolas Cage) opens a time capsule that was dug up recently in his son's elementary school, he discovers that it contains some chilling and strange predictions about the future. Some events have already occurred and some are yet to unfold. The discoveries then lead him into believing that his family plays a role in the events that are about to unfold. Those things that predict the future is a group of numbers and some kid are chosen to able to listen to those voice that tells them about the numbers.
A girl named Lucinda, is the girl heard those chilling voices and then wrote down all the numbers into a paper 50 years ago until Nicolas Cage's son got it from the time capsule. Soon then Nicolas Cage's son is able to heard the chilling voices. And then strange people out of nowhere, friend of mine said it is Alien, but for me I think it is Angel. Because in the very end, his son said a word,"He only brings who is willing to answer the calling." This word is actually the main point of the whole story, which I think that God is trying to tell the whole world.
"He only brings who is willing to answer the calling."
Bring to where? Haha! Watch the movie yourself as I'm not reporting the whole movie right here. And then I found out some similar movie there is about the end time like Armageddon, The Day after Tomorrow and Independence Day. These films has a similarity, which is all about the end time. People cannot predict how the end time is, but the bible did tells us how the end time gonna be.
Matthew 24:21
For then there will be great distress, unequaled from the beginning of the world until now—and never to be equaled again.
Matthew 24:29
Immediately after the distress of those days the sun will be darkened, and the moon will not give its light the stars will fall from the sky, and the heavenly bodies will be shaken.
God is actually trying to tell the whole world through the media society that His day is near and it has to be come very soon! But who is willing to answer His calling and then enter into His kingdom?
Those who willing to answer His calling will be able to see His face! Amen!
Being Somebody - April 13, 2009
Out of an expectation that I will post this kind of topic, just because I recall who I used to be, where I used to live. But in God's grace, Amen, I am able and have the capacity to post this title, Being Somebody.
People often loves to think that how they hope to be somebody. Like fans of Jay Chou hopes to sing like him; fans of a rock band hopes to play like the band or etc. This kind of attitude is good and correct in this generation, just because young people will improve themselves by this.
Some other people may thought this is a negative attitude which is so called "copy-cat". Well but I don't think so. In the bible, Elishah learns Elijah, Joshua learns Moses, them both inherit the greatness of their leader and their ideal model and in the end, them both achieve a higher standard or level than their leader had achieved. Then the other benefit for being a follower is, they can polish the bad things or negative image or attitude which their leader had. Then finally not only they can be like how their leader is, and also greater than their leader used to be!
While I was reading the bible few moments ago, I read a chapter 11 in one of the 4 gospels, it was saying that if the city yet to repent, the city will be in trouble. After reading that, I asked God, how to repent? God answered me, "I will raise up watchmen for this city and you, Paul, you must pray and repent for this city before me."
Then I think, oh yeah, both Cindy Jacobs and Jaeson Ma was doing the same thing, which is they're willing to answer God's calling and obey the commands, then finally the place they was prayed are being saved by God! Amen! Let's me feels that I want to be like them and I want be achieve more than them! Like Pastor Philip Mantofa, he had great faith on God until he can bring up a great revival in Surabaya, Indonesia. I believe with the faith that God has given in me, revival will come into Malaysia.
I believe this post is for whom has ears and had heard to receive. Buddies always thought that I am being too holy sometimes or too into the spiritual man (属灵）, well I admit sometimes I am, because why? If you want to be somebody, you must think like somebody. If I wants to be a youth pastor, I have to think like a youth pastor! Amen!
People often loves to think that how they hope to be somebody. Like fans of Jay Chou hopes to sing like him; fans of a rock band hopes to play like the band or etc. This kind of attitude is good and correct in this generation, just because young people will improve themselves by this.
Some other people may thought this is a negative attitude which is so called "copy-cat". Well but I don't think so. In the bible, Elishah learns Elijah, Joshua learns Moses, them both inherit the greatness of their leader and their ideal model and in the end, them both achieve a higher standard or level than their leader had achieved. Then the other benefit for being a follower is, they can polish the bad things or negative image or attitude which their leader had. Then finally not only they can be like how their leader is, and also greater than their leader used to be!
While I was reading the bible few moments ago, I read a chapter 11 in one of the 4 gospels, it was saying that if the city yet to repent, the city will be in trouble. After reading that, I asked God, how to repent? God answered me, "I will raise up watchmen for this city and you, Paul, you must pray and repent for this city before me."
Then I think, oh yeah, both Cindy Jacobs and Jaeson Ma was doing the same thing, which is they're willing to answer God's calling and obey the commands, then finally the place they was prayed are being saved by God! Amen! Let's me feels that I want to be like them and I want be achieve more than them! Like Pastor Philip Mantofa, he had great faith on God until he can bring up a great revival in Surabaya, Indonesia. I believe with the faith that God has given in me, revival will come into Malaysia.
I believe this post is for whom has ears and had heard to receive. Buddies always thought that I am being too holy sometimes or too into the spiritual man (属灵）, well I admit sometimes I am, because why? If you want to be somebody, you must think like somebody. If I wants to be a youth pastor, I have to think like a youth pastor! Amen!
Holiness (by Paul Yap) - March 23, 2009
1 Peter 1:16 "Be holy, because I am holy."
Leviticus 19:2 "Be holy because I, the LORD your God, am holy."
We could see in the bible that God keeps on emphasize that we must be holy, we must be holy. People might think that being holiness is some kind of difficult, something really impossible and it cannot be done by a human body itself.
I don't know do we ever asked ourselves or other people in the term of business. Terms like who, what, why, where, when & how. Well, I have thought about this and I think I get the answers. It is just from my self learning.
Who = Ourselves (of course)
What = Our spirit, soul & body
Why = To attract Holy Spirit and apart away from the evil spirit
Where = In the presence of God
When = Every single minute
How = Stay spirit awaken all the time
This is just my point of view..I don't know how the others thought, but I think this could be accurate to live in a life of holiness.
The word of God keeps on telling us that be holy because God is holy. What I can see is, God is actually loving us all the time. As I mentioned, people always think that live in a life of holiness is something sounds impossible and difficult, sometimes men even complain about why God put this "burden" for men. Well, I could see people whom asked this question is blinded in their spiritual eyes. Again, men would ask questions like, "If Jesus Christ is so good and if He loves me so much, why would He just kept on asking us to do something which is really difficult for us, isn't He is God and He can do all things?". People always complain about this kind of matters. Well, I can give a very simple parable on this issue.
If you want something which you really long to have it and feel like can't live without it and you know your daddy can get it for you, will you just ask your daddy once? Aren't you will ask your daddy until he get it for you?
Remember, action shows sincerity and hunger brings out actions.
BUT! You might ask, what to do with holiness? Aren't it's like out of topic??
NO! You can see this in the sight in this world living right now. Another parable could be given easily.
If you did something which is really rebellious and piss your dad off, do you think your daddy will approve your any request of beneficial to yourself but it is harmful?
Aren't you think that if you're clean and good, your dad will give you anything you want and not harmful?
This is exactly the same thing with why God want us to live in holiness. Once we're holy, not only we can listen to God's voice clearly, we can even more understand His will and His project in us, by this, complaints will lesser and no more. Not only that, we can even ask for more all the time from God. Our God is a God with full of generosity, nothing is too hard in Him. And holiness is also a direct connectivity with God. "be Holy, because I am Holy."
Holy + Holy = Connected.
This is why God asked us to be holy, at the mean time, which also mean that God wants us to connect with Him!
Amen?!
Amen!
Leviticus 19:2 "Be holy because I, the LORD your God, am holy."
We could see in the bible that God keeps on emphasize that we must be holy, we must be holy. People might think that being holiness is some kind of difficult, something really impossible and it cannot be done by a human body itself.
I don't know do we ever asked ourselves or other people in the term of business. Terms like who, what, why, where, when & how. Well, I have thought about this and I think I get the answers. It is just from my self learning.
Who = Ourselves (of course)
What = Our spirit, soul & body
Why = To attract Holy Spirit and apart away from the evil spirit
Where = In the presence of God
When = Every single minute
How = Stay spirit awaken all the time
This is just my point of view..I don't know how the others thought, but I think this could be accurate to live in a life of holiness.
The word of God keeps on telling us that be holy because God is holy. What I can see is, God is actually loving us all the time. As I mentioned, people always think that live in a life of holiness is something sounds impossible and difficult, sometimes men even complain about why God put this "burden" for men. Well, I could see people whom asked this question is blinded in their spiritual eyes. Again, men would ask questions like, "If Jesus Christ is so good and if He loves me so much, why would He just kept on asking us to do something which is really difficult for us, isn't He is God and He can do all things?". People always complain about this kind of matters. Well, I can give a very simple parable on this issue.
If you want something which you really long to have it and feel like can't live without it and you know your daddy can get it for you, will you just ask your daddy once? Aren't you will ask your daddy until he get it for you?
Remember, action shows sincerity and hunger brings out actions.
BUT! You might ask, what to do with holiness? Aren't it's like out of topic??
NO! You can see this in the sight in this world living right now. Another parable could be given easily.
If you did something which is really rebellious and piss your dad off, do you think your daddy will approve your any request of beneficial to yourself but it is harmful?
Aren't you think that if you're clean and good, your dad will give you anything you want and not harmful?
This is exactly the same thing with why God want us to live in holiness. Once we're holy, not only we can listen to God's voice clearly, we can even more understand His will and His project in us, by this, complaints will lesser and no more. Not only that, we can even ask for more all the time from God. Our God is a God with full of generosity, nothing is too hard in Him. And holiness is also a direct connectivity with God. "be Holy, because I am Holy."
Holy + Holy = Connected.
This is why God asked us to be holy, at the mean time, which also mean that God wants us to connect with Him!
Amen?!
Amen!
中国人起初的信仰 - 耶稣基督 / The religion of the Chinese during the ancient times - February 23, 2009
中国人敬拜上帝/耶稣的时间：2,500 B.C
*当时候中国人称神为上帝或天。
中国三大宗教的出现时间
道教 - 6 B.C
儒教 - 5 B.C
佛教 - 5 B.C
135-86 B.C，诗人-司马迁记录了黄帝(2,500 - 2,400 B.C)特意到山东的泰山筑了一座祭坛敬拜上帝。
司马迁也记录了汉代一个历史家的记录。
“上帝者，天之别名也。神无二主” 史记 （卷8，封禅书第六）
意思：上帝就是天的另外一个名字，只有独一真神，没有两个主。
*印证了旧约的教导
大清时代的歌谣，朗诵上帝乃是真主也，如下：
于昔洪荒之初兮，混蒙；
五行未运兮，两曜未明；
其中挺立兮，有无容声；
神皇出御兮，始判濁清；
立天立地兮，群物生生。
解释：
在创造之初，一切都是混沌黑暗，
五颗行星尚未运转，两个光击也未照亮，
在这当中，既无声响也无形体，
惟有主权的神，出来判断清浊之分，
你立了天、立了地、立了人，使天地万物生生入席。
"Of old in the beginning, there was the great chaos, without form and dark.
The five planets had not begun to revolve, nor the two lights to shine.
In the midst of it there existed neither form nor sound.
You, O spiritual Sovereign, came forth in Your sovereignty, and first did separate the impure from the pure.
You made heaven; You made earth; You made man.
All things became alive with reproducing power."
应验了圣经经节：
创世记 1章
English translation for the above (correct me if there are mistakes):
It is very obvious recorded the religion now the Chinese are in was created so many years after the appearance of God.
Date the Chinese worshiping God - 2,500 B.C
135-86 B.C, a poet name SiMa Qian had recorded the emperor on that time named Yellow Emperor, on a purpose he went to the Thai Mount in the East and build an altar to worship God.
Taoism - 6 B.C
Confucianism - 5 B.C
Buddhism - 5 B.C
*当时候中国人称神为上帝或天。
中国三大宗教的出现时间
道教 - 6 B.C
儒教 - 5 B.C
佛教 - 5 B.C
135-86 B.C，诗人-司马迁记录了黄帝(2,500 - 2,400 B.C)特意到山东的泰山筑了一座祭坛敬拜上帝。
司马迁也记录了汉代一个历史家的记录。
“上帝者，天之别名也。神无二主” 史记 （卷8，封禅书第六）
意思：上帝就是天的另外一个名字，只有独一真神，没有两个主。
*印证了旧约的教导
大清时代的歌谣，朗诵上帝乃是真主也，如下：
于昔洪荒之初兮，混蒙；
五行未运兮，两曜未明；
其中挺立兮，有无容声；
神皇出御兮，始判濁清；
立天立地兮，群物生生。
解释：
在创造之初，一切都是混沌黑暗，
五颗行星尚未运转，两个光击也未照亮，
在这当中，既无声响也无形体，
惟有主权的神，出来判断清浊之分，
你立了天、立了地、立了人，使天地万物生生入席。
"Of old in the beginning, there was the great chaos, without form and dark.
The five planets had not begun to revolve, nor the two lights to shine.
In the midst of it there existed neither form nor sound.
You, O spiritual Sovereign, came forth in Your sovereignty, and first did separate the impure from the pure.
You made heaven; You made earth; You made man.
All things became alive with reproducing power."
应验了圣经经节：
创世记 1章
English translation for the above (correct me if there are mistakes):
It is very obvious recorded the religion now the Chinese are in was created so many years after the appearance of God.
Date the Chinese worshiping God - 2,500 B.C
135-86 B.C, a poet name SiMa Qian had recorded the emperor on that time named Yellow Emperor, on a purpose he went to the Thai Mount in the East and build an altar to worship God.
Taoism - 6 B.C
Confucianism - 5 B.C
Buddhism - 5 B.C
The source of a rebellious of a child - January 21, 2009
A month ago, my cousins from Australia came back for vacation, it's their school break, which break for 3 and a half months...gosh, how I wish that I could study in Australia so can have such a long break.
Absolutely they will say at my house for few days and then stay at their dad's house for few days, switching here and there. During the days those kids stay at my home, I totally saw how am I being treated or so call "educated" by my grandma and relatives.
Poor both of my cousins are totally experiencing the same every single "educating system". It's like this:
1.)Forced to do something which they don't really want to.
2.)Beaten up like hell just to teach them to do this and that (of course they are naughty sometimes, but kids are like that, agree?)
3.)Yell at them while they look up sad and unhappy, then when they try to explain or answer back, due to the Chinese traditional culture, it is a rude reaction, then the situation worsen.
This is just part of the "educating system" they experienced, it is totally a big difference if compare to my childhood, interested knowing? Well, like it or not, I would like to share out so that readers could know how I have my childhood and hope you guys do not treat your children like this, no matter in spiritual or biological.
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4.)Slap on the face until my face got swollen and my ears gone deaf for couple of hours.
5.)Kneel before the idol with the matches branches placed on my knee for 2-3 hours. (Imagine that pain, try it if you wanna know how it feels.)
6.)In the situation of number 5, at the same time, my feet is whack heavily with a cane for times which I couldn't even remember, just remember that both of my feet are swollen with the traces of the cane.
7.)Scrub my lips with chili.
8.)Threaten by using a knife to cut of my fingers, which the knife had already placed on my fingers.
9.)Beaten up like hell with a mosquito bat until the iron breaks out. (Praise God that the battery inside the mosquito bat was taken out by dunno who, if not, I will suffer another electricity pain.)
10.)Always being ordered to do this or that, while don't know or do it wrongly, will beaten up again.
I do not deny that I am being rude or naughty on that days, is it my fault actually? Due to my cousins, I don't see there is any fault on them, so do I. But this is not the way to teach our children.
I think that's all to stat, really suffering to recall this, but I want the whole world to know that, never treat your spiritual or biological children like this, if not, things will always turn upside down when it goes to a maximum. That is why now I afraid nothing in physical and so angry while I see a parent teaching their children in an aggressive way.
Praise God that God had saved me from suffering and set me free, so that I could fly on the sky with Christ the Lord. Amen.
Absolutely they will say at my house for few days and then stay at their dad's house for few days, switching here and there. During the days those kids stay at my home, I totally saw how am I being treated or so call "educated" by my grandma and relatives.
Poor both of my cousins are totally experiencing the same every single "educating system". It's like this:
1.)Forced to do something which they don't really want to.
2.)Beaten up like hell just to teach them to do this and that (of course they are naughty sometimes, but kids are like that, agree?)
3.)Yell at them while they look up sad and unhappy, then when they try to explain or answer back, due to the Chinese traditional culture, it is a rude reaction, then the situation worsen.
This is just part of the "educating system" they experienced, it is totally a big difference if compare to my childhood, interested knowing? Well, like it or not, I would like to share out so that readers could know how I have my childhood and hope you guys do not treat your children like this, no matter in spiritual or biological.
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4.)Slap on the face until my face got swollen and my ears gone deaf for couple of hours.
5.)Kneel before the idol with the matches branches placed on my knee for 2-3 hours. (Imagine that pain, try it if you wanna know how it feels.)
6.)In the situation of number 5, at the same time, my feet is whack heavily with a cane for times which I couldn't even remember, just remember that both of my feet are swollen with the traces of the cane.
7.)Scrub my lips with chili.
8.)Threaten by using a knife to cut of my fingers, which the knife had already placed on my fingers.
9.)Beaten up like hell with a mosquito bat until the iron breaks out. (Praise God that the battery inside the mosquito bat was taken out by dunno who, if not, I will suffer another electricity pain.)
10.)Always being ordered to do this or that, while don't know or do it wrongly, will beaten up again.
I do not deny that I am being rude or naughty on that days, is it my fault actually? Due to my cousins, I don't see there is any fault on them, so do I. But this is not the way to teach our children.
I think that's all to stat, really suffering to recall this, but I want the whole world to know that, never treat your spiritual or biological children like this, if not, things will always turn upside down when it goes to a maximum. That is why now I afraid nothing in physical and so angry while I see a parent teaching their children in an aggressive way.
Praise God that God had saved me from suffering and set me free, so that I could fly on the sky with Christ the Lord. Amen.
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